Dating a man who doesn't believe in God- not an option. Lying or cheating to further my career- not an option. Putting anything in front of my children-not an option. Moving to Antarctica- not option. I think you get my point.
As obvious as it sounds that those things wouldn't be an option I still tend to find myself negotiating with things that really should have a hard line.
Just the mindset of something not being an option has truly truly changed my life over last few days.
Getting a new perspective on things is always an option!