Monday, December 20, 2010


Come to find out dating is a little hard on the old self-esteem. Even though I try to follow the agreement... -Don't take anything personally-... It's a little hard not to take it personally when they don't call. But whatever!

Every time I go on a date I run back to the "I'm not ready to date" place. Last time I shared this with my sponsor she said "You know how you get ready to date? By dating." Well I did, and now I feel rejected. Dating sucks!

I know husbands can also be a pain in the ass. But if you have one give him a hug...and remember at least your not out there trying to date...hahahaha


  1. Hi Emily, That is exactly why I have not dated in seven years
    since my divorce. I hate rejection. And I hate games.
    But, good for you for getting yourself out there!
    Love to you.

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