Come to find out dating is a little hard on the old self-esteem. Even though I try to follow the agreement... -Don't take anything personally-... It's a little hard not to take it personally when they don't call. But whatever!
Every time I go on a date I run back to the "I'm not ready to date" place. Last time I shared this with my sponsor she said "You know how you get ready to date? By dating." Well I did, and now I feel rejected. Dating sucks!
I know husbands can also be a pain in the ass. But if you have one give him a hug...and remember at least your not out there trying to date...hahahaha
Hi Emily, That is exactly why I have not dated in seven years
ReplyDeletesince my divorce. I hate rejection. And I hate games.
But, good for you for getting yourself out there!
Love to you.
Rather than trying to find that terrific date. Begin to work on becomming that terrific date. From a friend in alanon.
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