I am starting to get a lot of e-mails and think it is important I explain some things. I answer every e-mail myself and it is my honor to do so. I treat every person in the beginning of sobriety as a newcomer. Without newcomers to help no one would stay sober. If you have relapsed in the past and feel bad about it or think of yourself as a relapser, know that I don't feel that way about you. You're a precious newcomer starting out on the amazing journey of sobriety. I love you and am proud of you. Hang on tight guys, it gets better, I PROMISE!